Creating Waves of Awareness
If you want to connect yourself with something:
On a candle you write your name with a nail.
On the other candle you write what you want to connect yourself, eg "happiness" or "love" ...
Then you light both candles as they stand apart to each other. As they burn, you push the candles slowly together. Then they go out with the smallest possible closeness. Please be careful so that the candles only burn itself. Be in the surrounding for effectivness of the ritual.
That the ritual is not too long, get thin and small candles. Example: tea lights need about 4 hours to go out to.